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SOS

Hello Lifectioners,

SOS


Its MONDAY - the opening day of the week.


Monday's mostly depend on how you spent your SUNDAY.





OPTION-A:  You had a super-lazy Sunday and had no mood of facing Monday!


OPTION-BYou stuffed yourself with determination and positivity; made few goals and was SUPER-READY for Monday!


OPTION-CYou labor a LOT this Sunday and had wished for another Sunday!


OPTION-DYou had a soothing, refreshing Sunday and have no personal issues with Monday!


You may fall under one of the options or a fusion of these! 


Well, NO MATTER WHAT, MONDAY IS HERE .....

SOS

So, Why not begin it with some beautiful thoughts and  SOS!


SOS - initially, this term was used via ships in distress or emergencies meaning *SAVE-OUR-SHIPS*


This term is now widely in use.

( we have SOS services in our mobile phones )


But the MOST appealing meaning of SOS is *SAVE-OUR-SOULS*!


BUT MY SOS...DOES NOT MEAN ANY OF THESE... 

( it will save your soul through ^_^ )

S ~~ STAND BACK

O ~~ OBSERVE

~~ STEER



Before taking any action, whether BIG or SMALL, IMPORTANT or CASUAL 

turn to your SOS system for a peck!

Let's take each keyword one at a time...


STAND BACK

SOS
  1. Pause your Brain and FOCUS on the decision you are going to make.
  2. Detach yourself from the situation.
  3. Be the *third* person.
  4. Imagine yourself as an ADVISER.

  5. and during all this - "YOUR BRAIN IS YOUR PLAYGROUND AND YOUR THOUGHTS ARE YOUR PAWNS."


OBSERVE

Now that you see the situation as a third person ( detached from *me-my-myself* state )

  1. Start thinking about the situation
  2. Cover each and every aspect which runs through your mind
  3. DO NOT switch to *you* state.
  4. Ask yourself a simple modulated question - *WHAT NOT TO DO .........?


I always feel its difficult to decide-WHAT TO DO
Perhaps, It's easier to answer - WHAT NOT TO DO ?



I always feel it is difficult to decide-WHAT TO DO

Perhaps, It's easier to answer - WHAT NOT TO DO?




OBSERVATION is the main source of solution.



`Lack of observation, means lack of precision


STEER


Now that all the important settlements are done.

                                            'Use your steering and command your vehicle '


  1. Take the ACTION.

  2. This activity seems longer and tricky but once you inculcate this habit of referring to your "SOS" sense

    You will realize how QUICK and ACCURATE you can be !!!!



    Let me build a very simple hypothetical situation  ~


    Disputes with a Relative ...


    At some point of time, you fought with your friend/mom/dad or anyone near and dear to you.

    Next time when in such situation ....turn your SOS ON


    STAND BACK - Remove the anger, Remove the factor *me*, Remove the anxiety.

    PAUSE!


    OBSERVE - Observe the situation as a third person ( not as *you* ) . Try to understand the situation ( try to understand the other's parties point of view ..you know yours pretty well )


    STEER- Act according to your *third-person* observation. If you feel you have a stronger point - Depict it clearly ! and if you feel you lack the gist - ACCEPT!


    NEVER FAIL TO ACCEPT YOUR MISTAKES. BECAUSE NOT ACCEPTING YOUR                                        MISTAKES IS THE BIGGEST MISTAKE.








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22 comments:

  1. Vision and it's power is magical. I am amazed.

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  2. This one gave me a new view to look after.. that's a lot

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  3. I must say y'all are doing such a nice work here. Looking forward for new blogs and some further improvised updates. :)

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  4. Beautifully written. Very helpful indeed. ;)

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  5. I must say that y'all are doing such a nice work here.. looking forward for more new improvised books and updated. :)

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  7. Brilliant devanshi. I must say, you just came up with brilliant piece of advice. Love your work

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  8. Well written with some of the most helpful
    advices to improve quality of life. :)

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  9. I am following these blogs from quite sometime. I really like it, impressive.

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  10. Extremely impactful

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  11. SOS has a good meaning too! I got to know after the blog

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  12. I feel Observation is a really important. And you described it all well.

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  13. Observation on point. Good one

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  14. This blog page brings so much positivity in each and every blog. You guys do a good job.

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