Develop an understanding attitude

Hello Lifectioners,,

People who want figuratively to bite you, 

growl at you, pick on you, and otherwise chop you down are not rare in this world. If you're not prepared for people like that, they can punch big holes in your confidence and make you feel completely defeated. You need a defense against the adult bully, the fellow who likes to throw his meager weight around... These people generally find it good to push you down, so as to make their level rise up.. But you have to show that you are not like an ordinary person who can be suppressed with such weak example...!!
Stand up, buckle up your belts, and get ready to...... 

Chill...Relaxx... Just get ready to Relax.. Turn your overthinking mind off for a while.. Calm yourself.. Just let goo..!!! As I explained in my earlier post, let the anger people give to you remain to themselves by you not feeling insulted..!! Because you are one of your own special kind.. Do Not count yourself less than anyone less. Probably he might be a good guy underneath but the circumstances have made him appear bad to you.. Probably you just became a scapegoat due to his anger...

Think as if "Underneath he is a nice guy, most folks are."
Just the situatuions create an illusion, making someone bad or someone good..!!

A beautiful example for this kind of situation, I got in a book "The Magic of Thinking Big."

"A few months ago, at the reservations desk of a Memphis hotel, I saw an excellent demonstration of the right way to handle folks like this.It was shortly after 5 P.M., and the hotel was busy registering new guests. The fellow ahead of me gave his name to the clerk in a commanding way. The clerk said, "Yes sir, Mr. R., we have a fine Single for you.""Single" shouted the fellow. "I ordered a double."The clerk said, very politely, "Let me check, sir." He pulled the guest's reservation from the ftle and said, "I'm sorry, sir. Your telegram specified a single. I'd be happy to put you in a double room, sir, if we had any available. But we simply do not."
Then the irate customer said, "I don't care what the h-that piece of paper says, I want a double."Then he started in with that "do-you-know-who-I-am-l" bit, followed with ''I'll have you fired. You'll see, I'll have you fired."As best he could, under the verbal tornado, the young clerk injected, "Sir, we're terribly sorry; but we acted on your instructions.”
Finally the customer, really furious now, said, "I wouldn't stay in the best suite in this - - hotel now that I know how badly managed it is," and stormed out.
I stepped up to the desk, thinking the clerk, who had taken one of the worst public tongue-lashings I'd seen in some time, would be upset. Instead he greeted me with one of the finest"Good evening, sir" I'd ever heard. As he went through the routine of processing my room, I said to him, "I certainly admire the way you handled yourself just a moment ago. You have tremendous temper control.""Well, sir," he said, "I really can't get mad at a fellow like that. You see, he really isn't mad at me. I was just the scapegoat. The poor fellow may be in bad trouble with his wife, or his business may be off, or maybe he feels inferior and this was' his golden chance to feel like a wheel. I'm just the guy who gave him a chance to get something out of his system."The clerk added, "Underneath he's probably a very nice guy. Most folks are."Walking toward the elevators, I caught myself repeating aloud, "Underneath he's probably a very nice guy. Most folks are."

Remember those two short sentences next time someone declares war on you. Hold your fire. The way to win in situations like this is to let the other fellow blow his stack and then forget it."

Shed off your EGO and shed off your ANGER..!!! Just develop an understanding attitude towards people and lead a successful and happy life...!! :) 
To end I would just end up with this quote-
- Terry Mark


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